"Many Photos" - My wife and I haven’t had sex in four years and Viagra didn’t work for me

DEAR DEIDRE: SEX was always an enjoyable part of my life but I’ve not been intimate with my wife for four years now.

I am 58, she is 54.

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My wife and I haven’t had sex in four years and Viagra didn’t work for me[/caption]

She says it is OK we don’t have sex any more but I don’t agree.

I’ve tried Viagra but I don’t get on with it very well.

If we are not close physically, though, I worry we will be less close in other ways.

At the back of my mind there is always the niggling worry that she will leave me for another man.

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DEIDRE SAYS: If you tried Viagra, then I assume it was erection problems that ended your sex life.

Talk to your GP about trying a different medication – Viagra is not the only one – or in a different strength. They do vary.

There is also lots of self-help you can try – and sex isn’t just about intercourse.

You can both share a lot of sexual pleasure and satisfaction in other ways.

My e-leaflet on Solving Erection Problems explains.

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