DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife and I had a threesome with one of my work colleagues – but I fear they took it further than I am comfortable with.
I am 35 and my wife is 34. We have been together for nine years and have a good relationship in general.
We were at a friend’s Christmas drinks do last week and a work mate, who is 31, was there.
He was flirting with my wife and they spent a lot of time together.
As we were leaving, he grabbed her breast and she did not seem to mind.
My wife and I talked about him as we walked home and I was feeling quite aroused.
I jokingly said to my wife: “How about I ask him to come round ours for a bit of three-way fun?”
My wife didn’t seem to mind either way and, as we got in the door, she said she was going to bed. I texted my colleague and asked if he wanted to come over.
He doesn’t live far away. My wife soon came downstairs when she heard him knock at the door. We had another drink — we had all already had quite a lot — and I suggested we go upstairs.
I was amazed when they both agreed. I didn’t really think it would happen.
They seemed really laid back about the whole thing.
It was all so sexy and I was turned on but I stopped it when I saw her going too far with him.
I then got up to get a drink, so left them alone for five minutes. I am convinced they had sex in that time but they both denied it when I confronted them. I love my wife but am feeling confused.
I am now questioning her trust because she agreed to the threesome so easily. I just think she has a slutty side to her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It is so hypocritical of you to criticise your wife’s behaviour when you were the one who suggested a threesome in the first place. Be careful what you wish for.
Getting others involved in your sex life can seem like harmless fun but it often results in real pain and lasting resentment.
You cannot turn back the clock but you do need to talk to your wife and tackle the real issue.
What is going wrong in your relationship that made you think a threesome was going to be a good idea.
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