New photo I feel punished after not being invited to my partner’s friend’s wedding

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE not been invited to my partner’s friend’s wedding – but he says it’s their day and they can do what they want.

I’ve been with my bloke for three years. He had a fling a year ago – with a girl whose friend is the one getting married.

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The fling lasted a few weeks. My partner came clean, we worked through it and our relationship is good again. I’m 29 and he is 31.

Everyone else is taking a plus-one to the wedding, along with the girl my partner cheated with.

I understand the bride and groom don’t want any drama but I’m still hurt.

Enough time has passed since that fling. I’m over it. I feel like I’m being punished when I’m the innocent party.

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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s not ideal but don’t take it personally. The other girl is their immediate friend, like your partner. Each guest can cost a lot – especially if it’s someone they feel awkward about inviting. It is their day and their decision.

Let this go. It is not a battle you are going to win. My e-leaflet on Wedding Worries explains more.

Suggest you and your partner have a special break away together the following weekend.

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