DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD sex with the fattest girl at work and loved every minute of being smothered by her amazing body.
It had been my fantasy since I first saw her. We work for a successful finance company and it is very cliquey.
I’m 25 and she is 23. The group of people I socialise with, in and out of work, are very snooty. You are either “one of us” or “one of them”.
The work is high-pressured and appearances matter. This girl is generally the butt of most of the comments and jokes, not just from my friends but from most of the others too. Sometimes it can be quite cruel.
She is extremely overweight but she has gorgeous hair and eyes.
To celebrate the business growing more than ten per cent over the company’s last financial year, our bosses put on a dinner-dance at a smart hotel in town.
There was a free bar and everyone was soon really drunk. Most of us stayed over at the hotel.
After it officially finished, there were a few of us still at the bar. I was really drunk and nodding off so my friends told me to go to bed. I left at the same time as the fat girl and we got in the lift together.
As she got out on her floor I asked her if she had any drink in her room as I knew my minibar was empty.
She said she’d smuggled in some vodka and invited me to have a drink. Despite the shallow appearance I put on at work, I really love large girls, the larger the better, and I have fancied her for ages. We ended up having fantastic sex. Nobody at work knows about it.
Since then we’ve been seeing one another at weekends on the quiet. She’s not just my type physically but has a lovely nature. I’ve really fallen for her.
I can’t give her up but I’d be the laughing stock if anyone found out at work and would lose all my friends.
It might even hurt my career. I don’t know which way to play this.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Stop being such a hypocrite for a start. Those bullying, judgmental so-called friends of yours are really just revealing their own insecurities.
If you have the confidence to stand up for your own views, your feelings and your relationship, they’ll most likely fall into line and revise their opinions.
Don’t go along with fat-shaming. Say you’ve been seeing this girl, that she is great to be with in every way and you’re very happy with her.
Don’t go along with any sniggers or snide remarks. Just say you feel like a lucky man.
Some companies frown on workplace romances, though. If yours is one of them, make sure it doesn’t affect your working relationships in any way. Apart from that, enjoy your happiness. It’s your life, live it.
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Hayden Panettiere
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Age: 18
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Weight: 8st
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Size: 10-12
Age: 52
Height: 5ft 8in
Weight: 9st 4lb
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