DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE just had a termination after a fling with a man – because I’m married to a woman.
I’m a woman of 34. My wife is 38 and beautiful but we don’t always get to spend much time together. We are both nurses but based in different hospitals and work different shifts.
We met during our training. I’m bisexual. I had sex with a guy when I was 17 and I’ve had relationships with both men and women since then, until I married my wife a year ago.
I met a guy in a kebab shop after a night out with the girls from work. He was with his friends and there was a lot of banter as we waited for our food. He’s my age and very attractive.
He lives down my road so people started saying their goodbyes as we walked along until there was just the two of us. My kebab had so much chilli sauce that I was gasping for a drink so he invited me to his house for water.
He told me he’s married with a two-year-old daughter. They were away visiting his wife’s mum in Scotland. I got up to leave and he put his number in my phone so I could tell him I’d got home safely.
I texted him later and he invited me over the following evening for a bottle of wine. As the alcohol flowed, so did our conversation and I admitted how much I missed sex with a man.
He said he’d always had a fantasy about sex with a lesbian and he kissed me. We had sex on his sofa and it was so good to be back with a man again.
Since then we’ve been meeting whenever we can and he sometimes comes to my place. But I found out I was pregnant last month. I had to have an abortion or my wife would have been heartbroken. I’ve realised I’m messing with people’s lives.
I do miss sex with a man but I’m not sure whether to tell my wife what I’ve done, or the guy I’ve been fooling around with. He doesn’t know about the pregnancy.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I understand the extra pressures and temptations that can result from being bisexual but surely this proves to you that you have to make some firm decisions about the future. Being bisexual is no excuse for cheating. If you really do miss sex with a man so much you can’t be faithful to your wife, then you owe it to her to be honest and call it a day.
Or is it that the pressures of your jobs and the different shifts have turned you into ships that pass in the night, that you haven’t been enjoying a proper relationship with your wife let alone a fulfilling sex life?
In that case, look at whether you can change your working life or leisure time so you have more quality time together. Even one great evening or day together a week can make a massive difference to how you feel about one another.
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